Marshfield Mamma: Thanksgiving

Warning: the picture is not indicative of the kids behavior on Thanksgiving. They were angels.

Holiday traditions are important to me. I didn't realize that until the traditions I had, started to change. I want my kids to have those traditions to cherish but we've yet to really get a definite routine for the holidays.
This year we spent our Thanksgiving at my in-laws (Anne & John) in Quincy. It was wonderful. It was just the 6 of us but it was perfect. The kids really had some time to bond with their grandparents. Anne had dinner at noon so the kids wouldn't be too squirmy. After dinner they watched a video and the adults chatted. We had dessert and then everyone (except Brooke and Anne) took a nap. It was very relaxed and fun. Just what you want a holiday to be.

I'd love this to be a holiday tradition because I really enjoy my in-laws and look forward to our time together. There is always something going on, some political debate, some family fracas, some hot issue to discuss with them. John & I have been trying to talk them into moving to Marshfield and they are starting to think about it. It would be great to be able to spontaneously have dinner without worrying about the driving, etc.
When we lived in Marblehead I loved having my grandmother close by. I remember walking from high school to her house all the time just to chat and have a snack. It was cool knowing you had a little home away from home that you could just go to to hang out. It's always easier talking to your grandmother than your mother, I don't know why but I know my kids will feel the same way.